Remain in me, as I also remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me.
“I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing. John 15:4-5 (NIV)
“As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love. If you keep my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commands and remain in his love. I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete. My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. John 15:9-12 (NIV)
For Reflection:
The bright sunshine feels welcoming this morning. As I reflect on abiding, the rays reflect brilliantly on the snow that still covers the ground, casting light in all directions. A squirrel scurries across the yard, and as I watch it, a cascade of deep purple flowers on the window sill catches my eye. The orchid blooms are stunning in contrast to the backdrop of snow. I count six of them arrayed along a thick, dark green stem, with a seventh bud ready to burst open and stretch its petals. Another stem, once prolific, with its supporting stake still connected, extends in the opposite direction: dehydrated, faded and lifeless, its flowers long gone. I make note that I need to cut and remove it. I am moved by this picture before me of a life connected and nourished by the root and one whose connection has been disrupted.
Jesus is teaching His disciples how and why to abide, to remain, to stay connected with Him – deeply at the core—so that they and we may be fully alive and fruitful. In the upper room, knowing He will be taken away soon, Jesus uses this analogy of a vine and branches, with God as the gardener, to illustrate what I see in this orchid on my windowsill. He speaks also of love, joy, friendship, and loving one another. A promise here is when we remain in Him, we can become fully alive, grounded in His love and bear the fruit of His love in our lives, families, schools, workplaces, churches and the world we live in. All of this is rooted in our ongoing, deep connection in relationship with Him, and through this, He restores us day by day. I reflect on my relationship with Jesus. How would I describe it?
I think about my actions, thoughts, and interactions over this past week. Lord, what do you want me to see? Is there anything about this passage that makes me feel defensive? I talk with Jesus about that.
Abiding is so important to Jesus that He prays this for His disciples and us in John 17, just before they go the garden where He will be taken captive: ”…that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you. May they also be in us… Then, “…that the love you have for me may be in them and that I myself may be in them.”
Do I feel the same urgency Jesus felt? What steps can I take to remain more deeply connected with and in Him as I work, play, study, or take care of children or aging parents, that His love, joy, and peace might flow through me to others?
Let us pray:
Jesus, I am blown away to know that you so deeply desire an abiding relationship with me that you prayed for this – for you and for me – even before you sacrificed your life... I sit in silence with you and listen for a moment… Lord, I want to learn to remain in you and you in me; will you show me and help me live in your grace and forgiveness, in peace, with joy, and share Your kindness and love nourishment that comes only from You. Help me to grow in relationship with you…to experience you, receive your love, fullness of joy, and peace… help me to see and live out your vision for ongoing connection between us—I in you and you in me… that from the core of my being, heart-to-heart with you, that I might live fully nourished and fueled by your wisdom, grace and love, forgiveness freely given to me, to guide all I am and do.
I pray along with Jesus: This prayer is not for me alone. I pray also for those all who believe and will come to know you, that all of us may be one. Holy God—Our Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, just as you are One and are in me and I am in you, I pray that we may all be one… May the love you share be in us and that each of us, that I myself, would remain in your love as you remain in me, and each of my brothers and sisters in you.
I wonder what it could look like to remain in God more as I move through my day?
I wonder what fruit you would like to bear in and through my life?
I wonder what ways Jesus will restore me as I grow in relationship with Him?